If you have a Narcissist in your family DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT or they will ruin your life forever.

Update 060625

Chatting to a lady on the beach today (total stranger, late 40's), her best friend since 4 years old was also her manager at work, this woman was a complete narcissist, control freak, bully etc. She was virtually insane, making up lies to stop staff taking holidays, blocking promotions and worse. The lady laughed it off because she had a strong personality, she was strong, BUT, what about all the weaker people?

Narcissists are very sick, they have a mental illness and need help, if you don't get them help they will ruin themselves and you and your family for life if you enable them.

I know many narcissists, one old man in particular is so nasty I'm told he caused his octogenarian wife and mother to his children to attempt to end it all. His son doesn't talk to him and his grand kids are estranged too, yet he wonders why, typical narcissist behaviour. When things don't go his way he shouts and screams, starts crying and many times runs away pretending he is going to end it all too.

That old man uses money to try to control the people around him, the money is jointly his and his wifes yet she lets him do it through fear.

Another narcissist I know is almost identcal to the one above, shouts and screams to try to get his way, swears blind everyone else is trying to control him, lies and believes his own lies. He knows he treats people bad yet moans and even crys when they want nothing to do with him.

People around all the narcissists I've know always seem to take the easy way out and ignore or avoid them, that is the opposite to what you should do in my opinion, all that does is enable and empower the horrid people. They should be confronted and stopped. Why would you let your friend, mother, wife, sister, children or grand children be mentally abused like that.

GROUP together and deal with these people, far better for everyone in the long run.